Dating is very often an exciting adventure, but it can also be intimidating and uncertain. If you’ve just started a relationship, there are a few things you should always remember in order to make dating an enjoyable and fulfilling experience. Although perfect relationships seem to only exist in fairy tales, you can easily make your relationship fun and exciting by keeping a few important tips in mind. Here are the top 10 dating tips for women.

Tip 1 – Love yourself before you love others

The first thing you need to learn is to love yourself before you love others. There are many women who often make the mistake of putting the needs of others before their own. This can lead to an unhealthy relationship. If you want your guy to treat you right, make sure you give yourself the kind of attention and love you deserve. If he sees you treat yourself with respect, he’ll think twice about taking you for granted.

Tip 2 – Don’t stop living your own life

Another important thing to remember when in a relationship is the importance of having your own space and life. Don’t let a guy become the center of your universe. If you make him your whole life, he’ll soon lose interest in you. Guys are attracted to confident women who are independent; you create sacred space for your relationship, but also sacred space for yourself, work, friends and passions. Never lose the things that are important to you; keep what you were doing before you started dating him; morning yoga class, swimming etc

Tip 3 – Master the art of communication

Many women rarely tell their lovers what they want. They assume guys know what they want and if things don’t go their way, they get upset. Such a behavior will only kill your relationship. Make a point of telling your guy what you’re thinking and how you feel, so you can avoid petty misunderstandings. Communication is the key to making any relationship work. If you want a good relationship, talk to your guy. Remember it’s a two way street, so be sure to encourage him to speak as well.

Tip 4 – Check your baggage

Don’t compare him to any of your ex’s, out loud or even in your head. Your ex is your past and if you keep bringing him up, you will push him away. If your ex treated you bad, don’t go talking ill about him; such behavior only makes people think you’re not over him. No guy wants a woman with this type of baggage!

Tip 5 – Keep it light

If you’re starting a new relationship, keep it light. The dates should be fun and not too serious. Keep the topic of conversation light and interesting, and avoid extremely personal topics such as family issues and past relationships. You can ask questions about general topics such as work, hobbies and other interests. Let the first few dates be a chance to get to know him, but don’t turn it into an interview!

Tip 6 – Dress right

Dress for success is a key rule in dating. Dressing your best shows your desirable side and that you’re interested. Don’t be afraid to look good. However, don’t overdo it and wear a cocktail dress and heels to go bowling, but make sure you’re always polished, and well-groomed. If he has a date planned, don’t be afraid to ask specifics about the location and dress code, to make sure you find the perfect outfit for your surroundings.

Tip 7 – Think like a guy

Once you start a relationship, you need to be interesting and fun to be with. Plan cool events, for example say ‘hey, I’ve got an extra ticket to this show tonight, want to come?’ Go out and do things with him. Ask him to join you, chances are high he will.

Tip 8 – Intuition

No matter what the situation may be, there’s always a little voice inside that tells you if you’re on the right path when it comes to meeting Mr. Right. If there’s something about someone that doesn’t feel right, or you feel uncomfortable with them, then listen to the voice within. Don’t suppress this feeling, always trust your instincts. Also be your natural self and don’t try to pretend to be something or someone you’re not, as it will eventually backfire.

Tip 9 – Pay attention to the introductions

Guys are extremely territorial and once he comes to the conclusion that you’re the woman he wants, he’ll start saying things like ‘this is my girlfriend, Alisa’. Once he’s started calling you his girlfriend, woman, babe or even his better half, he’s taking things seriously. By this time you should probably stop calling it dating and start using the word relationship.

Tip 10 – Guys are not all the same

All guys are not the same, so give him a chance. Sometimes, it’s easy to base every opinion you have on an experience you had with a guy, or by listening to your best friend’s advice. Keep in mind that we’re all different and everybody deserves a chance.


Relationships need not always end up in tears and heartache. So if you really want a happy relationship, you need to put some effort into it. With confidence and the right tips, dating can be a fun and rewarding experience!

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