Is there a guy you like, but for some reason, he doesn’t seem to notice you? Or worse, you have a dead set crush on a man, but you feel he doesn’t even know you exist? Don’t despair, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not interested, it could simply be a case of you not putting yourself out there and letting him know you’re around. Here are some simple tips on how to get a guy to notice you.


One of the first things to do is to smile at him (naturally of course, don’t overdo it!) Smiling shows him you’re a happy person, and let’s face it, who wants to go out with a grouch!


Try to be as confident as you can, even if you feel otherwise. Guys will pick up on girls who don’t think much of themselves, and let’s be honest, if you don’t like yourself, then why should he like you? Learn to love yourself, not in a conceited way, but appreciate the wonderful being that you are!


Make sure you make eye contact with him, guys love looking into girls eyes! Don’t stare for too long though, you don’t want to appear star struck!


One sure way to get him to notice you is to walk in front of him. Don’t rush past, but take your time so he gets to see you!


Flirting, done in the right way can certainly make a guy notice you. But don’t appear desperate or it will have the opposite effect. Be flirtatious enough to attract his attention. Men won’t ask you out if they don’t know you’re interested, and what better way to let them know!


Girl’s always like to feel special, and guys are no different.  Appreciating him or praising him for something he’s done will always make him feel special. If he plays sport, say things like ‘What a great throw!’  or  ‘Great touchdown!’  You can also praise him up at work for the job he’s doing or for the confident way he approaches the boss. Whatever activity you are sharing together, there will always be something you can praise him about!


Offering some kind of help, whether it be at work, or in any activity he’s involved in, will surely get him to notice you.


Connect with him, not by using Facebook, but by talking about something he’s interested in, but make sure you know something about the subject, otherwise it will sound fake.


When you’re trying to grab his attention, try and do it alone. If you’re with a group of girls his focus will not just be on you, and you won’t get noticed! Guy’s are also more likely to approach a girl if she’s by herself.



Boys love their toys, whether it be squirting a water gun or throwing a ball. Don’t be boring! Get in on the action and have some fun with them!

In conclusion, don’t take yourself too seriously! Make sure you’re having fun, enjoy yourself, smile and be happy, everyone is attracted to a happy, fun loving person, and the guy you want to date, is no different.

If you want to know what to say to him, to really get you noticed, then check out the video below. There are magical ‘desire’ phrases you can say to him that’ll flip his passion switch from off to ON!

Click here to watch this revealing video!

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